We all like to stay in our comfort zone. It’s human nature. But have you ever had the realization that you are sleeping through your life? That your weekly routine is a bit of a blur since all the days look the same? You sleep through your 9 to 5 and live for the weekends. Then those weekends slip through your fingers way too quickly. By Monday morning, you have to really think hard to remember what you did. Honestly, you’re tired all the time, and you can’t always figure out why. Any part of that sound familiar?
Me too. But leaving your comfort zone might be the only way out, and it doesn’t have to be dramatic.
Why Successful People Don’t Stay Comfortable
One of the things I’ve noticed about successful and motivated people is that they all push the envelope. Many of them are entrepreneurs. Seems like an obvious statement, but really think about it for a second. It takes someone brave enough to take an idea and run with it. Someone who doesn’t want to conform to the norm. That’s what makes them successful, they live outside the box.
However, it isn’t just entrepreneurs who fit this pattern. Really, any motivated, driven, well-rounded person does. You know the type. They are totally put together and know what they want out of life. They’ll likely tell you that the comfort zone is the silent enemy of their success and happiness.
What Stepping Outside Actually Looks Like
Here’s the key thing that struck me. The toe-the-line person tends to be that way in all areas of life, not just in their businesses. They want to try new foods, visit new places and meet new people. Also, they pick up new skills, learn new instruments and chase new experiences. This attitude of constantly looking for the new and different leads to people who constantly learn.
From inside the comfort zone, opportunities seem to fall from the sky for these adventurous people. They look abnormally gifted. They look like extraordinarily creative thinkers.
Are They Really Just Lucky?
But here’s my question today. Are they really getting more opportunities handed to them? Or are these people just more apt to seize the day? Were they born out-of-the-box creative thinkers? Or did they pick that up along the way? Maybe they tried new things, talked to people who think differently and lived in different worlds.
So what does that mean for you and me?
Let’s break this down. Leaving your comfort zone leads to new experiences. New experiences lead to learning. Learning makes you a more well-rounded individual. Then you become someone open to even more new opportunities.
Why Leaving Your Comfort Zone Pays Off
Here’s the thing, I’ve tried it. I found myself surrounded by people who did these things, and they inspired me to try it for myself. So I can testify. New experiences teach you and mold you. They give you this amazing rush of creativity and motivation to live life to the fullest. You won’t ever get that if you wall yourself into a routine that can never be changed even temporarily.
Pick One Thing and Go
I challenge you to do something off your bucket list. Anything. It doesn’t really matter which experience you go for. Just pick a new and scary thing from your wish list and make it happen.
For me, travel opened my eyes. Then I decided to pick up a new language, so I did. I have a good friend who finds her freedom in music. Another loves to create digital media designs. Another loves fire dancing, skydiving and yoga.
Honestly, it doesn’t matter which new experience you choose. Just do something that wakes you up. You’ll find yourself brimming with energy and alive with new creativity. You’ll feel rejuvenated and have more fun than you ever knew you could. It doesn’t have to be life-changing either. No need to do something so drastic as moving overseas (although that is amazing, I recommend it). Small changes do the same. Take the time to invest in yourself.
So leaving your comfort zone is really just a series of small choices that add up. Have you had a life-altering experience? If not, would you like to? What is stopping you?
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